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Lilac89 last won the day on August 31

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  1. Good question! We actually both look at other women, some we admire, others ... not so much But we do intentionally look at other people. However, I'd definitely consider lingering to be too much. Even if someone's attractive, I'd mind if my gf wouldn't stop staring
  2. @Anna summed it up really well We interact with women every single day, so not having any female friends would be crazy. Not to mention we have such few guy friends, most straight guys we know act weird when we tell them we're a couple... And yeah, anything intimate I consider cheating. Even holding hands.
  3. Awww... that's so sweet! Are you 2 still together? I think it's great that you were so into eachother. I couldn't do that with my gf. on our first dates. We're still together and care about each other very much, but at first things were so new, taking it slow was our approach
  4. For me, the moment was when I fell in love with my girlfriend. Somehow, I didn't care anymore what other people thought. It was like, I'm a lesbian, deal with it. I'm not saying you should stop caring about what others think, especially if you care about your family, friends and loved ones! But I was so tired of being in the closet, that meeting the love of my life somehow woke me up.
  5. Hi Carlie! Welcome to our friendly forums! You're in the right place if you're looking to make some great 'virtual friends' and have a LGBT safe place to chat
  6. I'm really outgoing now, but before I came out I was also very shy! So, I'd say there's nothing weird or wrong about it, it's just how some people are.
  7. Well, being LGBT myself, I just can't imagine being close friends with someone who has something against lesbians. I can have a conversation with homophobics, I can work with them, share a cab... anything! I just can't become friends with them, that's all.
  8. Hey, @SElf! Are things better now? I rarely fight with my gf. but even if we do, we live together so conflict is inevitable. However, sometimes I do wish we could be able to just take a few hours at least, apart. It helps cool things down. When you're in a fight mood you usually say things you're gonna regret. So, look at the right side. At least by ignoring you, she's not giving you or herself the chance to say something you could regret.
  9. Omg, @17Peanuts! I've been told numerous times I look just like her and let me just say, it was one of the most flattering compliments I got She's a hottie, no doubt about it!
  10. I'm taken. But I'm not sorry about it! Hahaha!! My gf. is the best thing that ever happened to me. So, I'm happily taken, to be more precise.
  11. That's rough, dear, I'm so sorry you have to go through such difficult time. I know it sounds cliche, but just hang in there! Things will get better, they usually do, once you finish school and start life on your own, you're going to be in full control of who you date and being LGBT won't be so difficult anymore
  12. This is a tough one to answer, since every situation is different I'd say, just act natural! Thing is, going on first dates means little physical contact anyway... you're not that familiar just yet. And later on, you can just decide together how to play things out. I hope this helps!
  13. You did good, Jasmin! I'm glad you put your foot down and decided to take action. 3 years is a lot! You missed out on so much, I'm so happy to hear you decided to take your life back! Good luck and, of course, please let us know how it goes
  14. I think, often times, the 'gaydar' can turn out to be just as offensive as stereotyping. LGBT people are stereotypes by the straight, if we start stereotyping too, well... where will that lead us? So, I prefer not to jump to conclusions before actually knowing the person.
  15. I'm actually listening to live music I have some neighbors who occasionally sing and play their instruments (I think I've heard bass, guitar and piano, although I doubt they have a piano up there..)