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  1. @Decentlady yeah what to7update says, never ever do implants. They just don't look natural and I think it can risk your health if something's not right. I don't know but I heard lots of stories mostly from TV program or something.
  2. @to7update is the number "7" your lucky or unlucky number? LOL
  3. Time is really important, it can change everything. My side of example is, many guys are attracted to my GF because of her appearance and personality. She has never done anything wrong. Maybe I lack of confident, I always have the tendency of being jealous and she always claims that I mistrust her (not in terms of she cheats, it's mistrusting her for thinking that she doesn't know how to handle these guys). She mixed with the guys due to the sports she did. So I was always jealous. But throughout the years, she proved that she is very faithful and she never done anything wrong. Now in our 6th year of relationship, I no longer jealous over things like this, sometimes I may ask a little more, but that's just me trying to understand what those guys want from her. So yeah, I am glad that things work out for you well now, @JasminCottontail
  4. I am the opposite. I wrote in one of the topics that I felt like I am in the wrong body for a long time but only started to accept my feminine body shape after I start dating my current GF. I didn't like the idea of having boobs since 12 years old when they start growing. There are disadvantages for having big boobs, really inconvenient, especially when you wanna play sports or even when you sleep facing down (this is what I do since I was a baby). But I know it looks great for women when they wear dress etc. I was having my cereal breakfast, I almost choked!
  5. 15 is young IMO, 17 is not much older either I would say give your first kiss to someone more meaningful than just looking at the numbers of your age, so no worries. My first kiss happened when I was 18, but I like the "first kiss" in my second relationship when I was 21. I know what this means! First kiss or not, it has to feel right. If it doesn't feel right, first kiss probably won't mean a lot.
  6. This is so true! Have never thought of this until you said it. It's indeed true that these messengers "help" a lot in letting people to ask for favours without having to do it face to face!
  7. You might wanna think of a way to get yourself acquainted to her first maybe. Have you thought about it? Like maybe join a same sports club or something. Lesbian or not, being asked to go for a date by someone she doesn't know may seem a little awkward for her, the chances of getting rejected are therefore higher.
  8. I like the bug and ladybug names!! Well I do agree that maybe it's something to discuss with our partners beforehand. Just like my GF wasn't really fond of me calling her, for example, dear, because I've used it in my past relationship. So we agreed upon something else.
  9. OMG, this is exactly what happened when I was starting this topic. She contacted me for favours and often don't enter straight to the point. And I'm tired of how she starts the conversation "hi how are you?". I don't need that because I know it's not sincere. Like what you did, i "provided" her solutions and even stop saying hi and concerning her. Every time when her name pops up on my WhatsApp notification, I'll be like Oh sh*t and felt annoying!
  10. Anonymous posting works well.
  11. This is one of the things I disliked when people said it. Including my sisters (used to). If they have nothing against the people, they wouldn't even say this kind of things. Another type of person would be, they think you'll fall in love with them. I think they are overly confident, like as if they are our cup of tea
  12. The apps were published back in July But thanks!
  13. Katie Hopkins doesn't just attack the LGBT community, she also bullies people (especially women) in bigger sizes. Claiming that she can gain weight and lose weight, why can't other big sized women do the same. In her show she clearly has professionals helping her to gain and lose weight safely. Anyway, maybe it's just for her own publicity.
  14. Don't think that's call demanding. Maybe a question kid! [emoji14] But as I said, I prefer questions than none. questions asked by members will help others.
  15. How far would you go when it comes to you being taken for granted by friends? How much patience do you have before shut these friends out of your life? I feel silly because I am fairly forgiving when it comes to this kind of situations, I couldn't help myself. The moment when I knew I was taken for granted, I am angry of course. But after some time I just "forget" about what they did to me. How many of you are like this?