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Everything posted by SElf

  1. Hello @littleMirror welcome aboard I hope someone will be able to help you out. Unfortunately I have no idea regarding this matter. But I would say it's probably safest to consult a GP. Even if you end up getting advice from forum members, I would still suggest you seek advice from a GP.
  2. I think it's normal. But it doesn't bother me a lot since my GF doesn't really look/stare at anyone!
  3. Hello there Emma! Welcome aboard. I know how it feels like being in an LDR! Sent from my iPhone using GirlLoveGirl app
  4. In case some of you don't know, gaydar is "gay radar", which means the ability to "sense" someone's sexual orientations. I used to believe it and I was right most of the time, until these two years my gaydar seems to have broken. The last two or three people that I thought they were turned out to be straight AF. Haha! I read some comments from an article about gaydar, they said it's only something to do with our own stereotype, nothing related to gaydar.
  5. In this case, your friend should talk to the guy, discuss what is the root cause of him becoming like this or telling him she feels because of his behaviour. I guess talking it might work since you said he's a gentleman. Sent from my iPhone using GirlLoveGirl app
  6. :784_peace: peace no war.

  7. Hi @BamaMommainMN, welcome aboard!
  8. Thesis writing is a nightmare!

  9. It's normal to feel that way, Isabel (Welcome you!) Does each of them know about your feelings for them?
  10. We don't know her personally IRL, so i wont judge her too much but from what you described, all I want to say is don't let her hurt your feelings. Because it seems to me she's taking you for granted in a way. Maybe she is maybe she is not. If i were another friend of yours, I'll definitely say i wouldn't agree about letting her kissing you unless she is single. I don't mean she can fool you regardless of her relationship status. It's just that the impact is doubled mainly because she's now in a relationship. If she doesn't wanna clear things up, is it possible to keep a distance from her?
  11. Maybe I am lucky enough to not be bullied by schoolmate but I understand the feeling of being bullied. But I have friends or some people I know were bullied at some point in their life. I think the first thing to do is to speak to someone you trust (maybe family members or good friends). Next is to report to the disciplinary department (if someone is still in school).
  12. Hey @can1492, we welcome you! Let's put your good friend's boyfriend aside for now, may I first ask, how do you feel about it? Also, how does your good friend feel? Is that a pure friendship between you and your good friend?
  13. Hi Carlie, welcome and nice to meet you.
  14. What do you do when you're in a cold war with your partner? This is referring to that you're not living together and your partner is ignoring your calls and all.
  15. I was thinking this thread with polls might be of useful for members who want to personally make friends with other single ladies. You can acknowledge other members whether you're single or taken by voting and voters' usernames will be available for others to view. You can also describe more about your preferences or anything in below section. If you found someone single on this forum that you would like to communicate further, then you guys can proceed to talk via PM or chat. But of course, it doesn't mean you cannot make friends if you're taken. Just don't do something naughty, you know what I mean, (though there's the naughty option there "Taken, but.. umm.. well.." and I dare you to vote that). Poll options as follows: Single but not available Single and available Sorry, I'm taken Taken, but.. umm.. well..
  16. Hi @TheLostgirl. Welcome aboard (if i haven't welcomed you personally) I remember i was also lonely many years ago (not that I'm not lonely now, it's because I have a GF now) because I'm also from a country that doesn't recognise LGBT. I went to co-ed school and then girl school, then college and university. The happiest years were when I'm in a girl school (high school). Crushes happen during those years the most. But, friends around me were and are normally straight. So whoever i fall for, they're normally straight. Thus, i was quite lonely inside. I knew my first GF and current GF only when I'm in college (not knowing they are Les/bi ). All I wanted to say is it's about patience and timing. One good thing now is that we have dating apps in this era, so it's much easier for you to befriend LGBT people. It doesn't fully help coping but it probably helps a little. Even now I have very little LGBT friends but I mix quite well with my straight friends as I already came out to them after years of being friends. So it really depends on where you're from.
  17. I am never ready to come out to my parents. But i think the best moment is when you know your parents' view about LGBT. Let say they might say something good or nasty about LGBT. That's when you get a clue on whether or not it's the best time to come out to them.
  18. My weakness is that I cannot just ignore any negative feelings, and this often impact my day. Told myself to ignore, but it's much harder than I thought. But one thing for sure is, I can see changes in myself over the years, I am still affected a lot by negative feelings, but not as much as it used to be.
  19. I think people often took "being drunk" as an excuse. And if I were in your friend's position, I wouldn't forgive both of them. Knowing that it will cause some consequences they still proceeded with their actions. I know it's always easy to say, but no matter how drunk a person is, he/she knows what he/she is trying to do.
  20. Hi Shasha, welcome (sorry for the late!) here Speaking of Taiwan, I hope they pass the same sex marriage bill.
  21. If you're listening to music, what song are you listening to right now? I am listening to The Scientist - Coldplay on Spotify
  22. My country is one of those that decided to cut the "gay" scene because "children will turn gay if they watch that". WTF. And now Disney gives our government two choices: 1) release the movie without cutting any scene, or 2) don't release at all. I personally prefer the second choice, because IMO there's no point to release the movie in my country unwillingly and cause LGBT community in my country being attacked. It's so much easier to watch movies legally (just a bit later) on the internet these days. So why worry? But of course, the positive is, through this incident, I saw many non-LGBT people stood up for us. Is the "gay" scene banned in your place/country?
  23. I hate this kind of situation. I often not strong/insist enough to be the one that start talking about it. And this kind of people often take it for granted and won't think from your perspectives! I would also like to ask the same question, have you talked about it to your hubby? Does he share the same thoughts with you?
  24. For me, it could be because I have had way too many crushes on women but not for men. I guess that's how I know I am *very* gay. I am also extra touched and excited (?) when I saw two women kissing each other (just like how straight girls love watching straight couples kiss in movies/drama?). And you would want to know them, get close to them and confess to them about your feelings.
  25. "Pretty sure we're both women" Sent from my iPad using mobile app