I've known people who aren't gay nor lesbians but acts so feminine and masculine. I have a friend who is a guy and dates girls but acts so feminine, so girlish but he said that isn't gay. It's just the way he projects himself and is cool with it. My hubby's cousin also acts too girly with the way he moves but he said that he is straight and oftentimes he feel mad and offended when people think that he is gay or bisexual. I also have schoolmates who acts like boys and men especially with the way they dress and walk, but aren't lesbians and dates men.
What do you think about men being too feminine and women too masculine but aren't considered as LGBT?
First official message, here goes.
So, I just turned 20, less than 2 weeks ago, but I've never dated anyone seriously, ever. Some of my friends have steady relationships already, but I've never actually gone out with boys for more than a few weeks.
I say boys, because until recently, this seemed to be my only choice. For years, my parents and group of friends keep telling me how dating works, and I grew up thinking girls are supposed to date boys, because it's "normal". The plan was always, find a nice guy, get married and have kids.
But what if I find boys to be... not my type? I mean, I feel much closer to girls, I find them to be much more interesting.
What I'm saying is, I do enjoy my time with guys, but I feel that there's something missing. I've never asked a girl out before, but when I think about it, I find myself smiling.
I never thought I'd be so confused! Am I attracted to girls? Have I not found the right guy yet? I haven't told this to anyone, this is the first time I'm talking about how I feel, I don't even know anyone who's gay or lesbian so it's very difficult for me to relate.
So, how do you know who you are? Am I bisexual? Am I just telling myself I 'have' to like boys, when in fact, I'm a lesbian? I don't like feeling like this, it's very uncomfortable, and have no one to talk to about it